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DIFFERENCE OF LOVE AND INFATUATION (REPOST ko lang)
INLOVE ka ba or LOVE mo sya? kala ko dati pareho lang iba pala!!
It’s definitely different when you love someone and when you’re inlove with someone”
explanation:
alin nga ba ang mas malalim?
Loving someone or Being in love with someone?
marami sa atin ang na confuse tungkol dito.
Ikaw ba ay may girlfriend o boyfriend ngayon?
Mahal mo ba siya pero parang may isang tao na parang mahalaga din sayo.
o may mahal ka na akala mo eh mahal mo nga siya pero meron ka pa rin isang tao na minamahal ng totoo. Kapag love mo ang isang tao masaya ka..
Feeling mo ok na ang lahat… pero ang ma-inlove ka, ang siyang pinakamasakit sa lahat!
Kasi ang mga taong inlove ay ang mga taong n a gsasakripisyo at ngpaparaya.
Teka bakit ka nga ba ngpaparaya?
Dahil ba hindi ka niya mahal o dahil hindi ka siguradong ok lang sa kanya?
Kung yan ang dahilan mo, walang duda na inlove ka nga sa kanya.
Kasi iniisip mo kung anong meron kayo sa ngayon ang tanging mahalaga at kontento ka na.
Pero isipin mo paano kung mawala ang taong yon at talagang hindi na kayo mag-usap at magkita, kaya mo ba?
Paano naman kung sayo siya inlove at ibinigay niya ang lahat para sayo pero hindi mo napahalagahan ang lahat ng ito kaagad!
Paano kung isang araw naguluhan na siya sayo ng husto at maisipang lumayo na lang?
Paano kung sa sobrang pagiging iba mo sa kanya di ka na niya kausapin at tuldukan na niya ng tuluyan kung ano na ang meron kayo?
Then bigla mong na realize kung gaano ka importante sayo ang bawat isa kaya lang wala na siya!
Kaya mo ba?
Kung hindi ang sagot mo, malinaw na in love ka nga…
Paano naman pag mahal mo lang, kapag mahal mo lang, alam mo na palagi kang may choice,
ayaw mo siyang mawala dahil alam mong wala kang ipapalit.
Yung masaya ka sa kanya pero sa gabi hindi naman siya ang iniisip mo.
Mahal mo siya pero aminado ka sa sarili mo na balang araw hindi siya ang pakakasalan mo.
Mahal mo siya pero ang puso mo hindi lang pra sa kanya..
Mahal mo at masasaktan ka pagnawala siya pero alm mo na kaya mo yon.
Ngayon anong nararamdaman mo ngayon: DO YOU LOVE SOMEONE or YOU’RE INLOVE WITH SOMEONE?
Isang araw magigising ka na lang na INLOVE ka na nga pero kahit anong gawin mo ay huli na.
Dahil maaaring yung taong INLOVE din sayo ay wala na pala.
Tandaan mo: Masyadong mapaglaro ang puso huwag tayo magpaloko!!!
We learn to love someone pero minsan lang dumating sa atin ang pagkakataong ma-inlove!!!
Kaya kapag dumating ito, ano ang gagawin mo?
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Comment by Kim ♀ on August 11, 2011 at 12:34am -
I think yung difference is when you say "in love" meron ding "out love".
Thus you could fall in love, and fall out of love.
But can you really call that real love?
Yung pwede mo lang pasukan tapos pag mawala na, edi yun na?
For me, when you say in love, it's an immature kind of love.
It's like saying you don't hold yourself accountable for what happened to you; that you were just a victim of fate.
I think love isn't a feeling.
Because human feelings are unstable.
And when you base love as a feeling, it's bound to get unstable as well;
hence the falling in and out of love.
No. I think love isn't a feeling;
it's a choice.
And when you make one, you stick to it no matter what the consequences are.
And by a firm decision, you make that love stable; you make that love grow and grow each day.
Thus it isn't logical to say you've fallen out of love because when you know that you love a person, there's no other way than to love that person more.
And that's when you can say that you truly love someone.
So I guess the question "Do you love someone?" is much more significant than the one that asks "You're in love with someone?".
Just an opinion.
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Comment by Monsieur LaPadite on August 16, 2011 at 10:36am -
:)
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Comment by 幸运自信的小鸡(fenj) on August 16, 2011 at 10:42am -
to kimoi: on my opinion, you can love anyone on this world if u want to, when ur inlove its unconditional, ever lasting.. i myt say u only love someone if u will fall out at the end.. it's not as deep as falling inlove w/ someone because u knew at the end u will end up separated.. it's like opening a door when sum1 knocks then when he/she left, u will open ur door again for sum1 who will knocks again.. unlike, when ur inlove nobody is most precious and important to you than the person u truly love.. u can fight for him even to ur family or close friends, u will stand up for him and hold on no matter what happen..
romance might be fade, but your FRIENDSHIP with him will last forever ...
having that person beside you till you grow old ...
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Comment by serafhim on August 17, 2011 at 12:49am -
infatuation can hurt you with no reason but love cannot hurt you without any basis...
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Comment by 幸运自信的小鸡(fenj) on August 17, 2011 at 1:57pm
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true serafhim...
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Comment by chaO tiNk on August 17, 2011 at 4:44pm -
infatuation affects the emotions only whereas love,both emotion and will.
in other words infatuation is just a feeling while love involves commitment :)
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Comment by 幸运自信的小鸡(fenj) on August 18, 2011 at 11:40am
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@ chao: cool... it's true..:)
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Comment by Manchester Shaft on August 22, 2011 at 12:38am -
infatuation just external admiration while love can be patient, accept whatever differences, settle things wisely.there is respect.and ur satisfied
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Comment by leandro gabriel on September 1, 2011 at 1:05pm -
infatuation is same as like,you like the person because there is a reason_physical attributes...while love is simply you love that person...
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Comment by REBORN!! _trad on February 13, 2012 at 10:19am -
Kaya may term ako na, "you're just in love with the idea of being in love"..
Siya nga pala, sana may 'lust' sa tanong..haha..
'difference ng love, infatuation at lust' :D
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